Thursday, November 15, 2012

The Jets Tebow Theory

Finally I can start writing for fun instead under stress (though I still need to do that in the very near future). Yesterday, ESPN and my twitter feed got blown up with Jets players throwing Tebow under the bus. A few even said he was the reason the team stunk... I'm sorry but when was the last time a player made a whole team horrible just by sitting on the bench aside from injury?

Now, don't get me wrong.... i'm not a tebow fan whatsoever.... i dislike tebowmania and i think Christians place him on an pedestal and worship him. Yep, Tebow is worshiped because he worships God.... somehow I don't think Christianity works like that... And his game...oh geez.... the defense bailed him out last year so much... all he did was make the clutch throws needed to win (HAHA.... steelers).. however, that is all that is needed to win games... and he won them... in an ugly fashion

Fast forward to the present... Tebow, benched, getting blamed for losses, for not playing.... something doesn't add up here... but the other thing is the Jets as an organization... The GM (Johnson?) stated that Tebow will not be traded or released... Rex Ryan continually stated that Sanchez is the starter..... which frankly i dont know how he could say that with a straight face... Tebow is promised snaps for the Wildcat offense.. and not seeing them... special teams? i dont remember seeing him on there either other than one play... so basically what Tebow is right now is a glorified bench warmer... why... what is the organization thinking?

Here's where the theory comes in... they aren't... they know what they're doing and they're doing a good job at it... and that is keeping Tebowmania from happening... Tebow on the Jets means that no other team can use him to beat the Jets... after all, Tebow lead the comeback drive and scored the game winning TD by himself against the Jets around this time last year and embarrassed them on Thursday night TV... Tebow on the Jets means no more Tebowmania, and no more Tebow beating the Jets...

And boy was this a sneaky plan... they know that there is no way that Tebow will demand a trade... he's too soft, he knows it will hurt his image... and the Jets are taking advantage of that.. However, the Jets aren't all at fault... Tebow definitely should've went to the Jags.... no QB.. and the desperate needs of fans would've single-handily attracted him there... (as a Titans fan, I constantly joke on how the Jags have no fans) However, he chose the Jets??!? (still confused about his logic here)

Tebow.... if you see this.. just demand the trade... put your image aside for just this once and yell "GET ME OUTTA HERE"... though it may hurt your image now, you will begin to inspire a lot more like you used to on the Broncos.... and when you inspire you'll start up the storm of tebowmania which furthers the gospel as a secondary action.... think of the greater good here... your image might be slightly damaged.. but who'll blame you... the Jets treated you like trash... you need to get out while you're young and still athletic... otherwise, you wont be as effective in the later years... since everyone loves a winner...

3 things in ending
Get out of the Jets
Start doing what you do best
and make me start disliking you again DAGNABIT!!!!!

Tuesday, November 6, 2012

personal thoughts of the elections

I must admit that I haven't been following the candidates and the debates as I should normally (job searching and schoolwork has definitely gotten in the way). If you must know my views, I lean a lot more to the right than the wrong.. err.. left (j/k).. reason being is because of the pro-choices, and support for homosexuality that most liberals support...along with socialism >< but that's another story... Though I was disappointed in the results, I really don't care..
For one, I believe that both have stupid religious stances... Romney is a Mormon, which is absolutely heretical... Obama is... well... I believe he's a Muslim, but that's what I think... my parents told me he goes to church, but going to church doesn't make you a Christian anymore than being in McDonalds makes you a Big Mac... so whichever is the lesser evil I guess....
What got me intrigued is the idolatry of the elections. The hope that one person can change the country. One person can give us what we need and will understand our views whether it's Obama or Romney... The second part are middle schoolers and high schoolers all of a sudden acting like they're class A politicians... I mean, what is this? when I was their age, I didn't care for the elections.... like at all.... why? because I can't make a difference...I was too busy with school and teenager stuff... and since when do you EVER win an argument on facebook or twitter... the best that can happen is a bunch of your friends gang up on the oddball out and they'll shut up in the end, making you feel better and watching your ego grow up to the size of Godzilla... because that's not arrogant at all...

Sorry friends, but I put my faith in something that won't go back on their word once they run into a group of people called Congress... so what's the worse that will happen? seriously? give me the worse and I'll give you Jesus... 1 Peter 3 gives us a perfect example of suffering... and believe me, I know suffering.. having no job is not fun right now and Obama won't make it any better either.... I'm not materialistic whatsoever, but there are still things I need to pay for while I'm here...  I know suffering is no fun.. but the Bible states the Christians will suffer.... this is not some easy religion where you need to do more and try harder.. so why do we treat it like that? Why do we try to escape suffering? Are we really trying to cling to this world that isn't ours to begin with?
1 Peter 2 states that we need to submit to our government... oh and by the way, we should try praying for them too.... not just today after the elections are over... but daily... which i know nobody do... not praying for them in the past and whining about it now is the same as praying to God ONLY when you need something...
Anyways.. that's my rant.... I'm sure we'll all be alive tomorrow... and the next day, and the next week and the next year and the next election.... which them people will think the world will end again but it'll be there the following day.. unless Jesus comes back that is... but then again, it sounds like nobody wants him to come back since we put idols of Romney or Obama in our minds...

some of this might not make sense... it's really late anyways... but peace out

Heyyyyyyyyyyyy wealthy ladies.....Mitt, Mitt, Mitt, Mitt, Mitt Romney Style!

Thursday, July 26, 2012

A look back on my summer marathon: part 4 CLBC Camp

Luckily I had a few days to rest before camp which was good since camp always drained a lot of energy because I need to keep up with the teenagers and I wouldn't be getting much sleep that week anyways...
Camp started on a Tuesday... and there were concerns of not being able to go because of the issue with the statewide power outages and people panicking and getting gas. However, when you know that God will provide... you just relax and go with the flow... We soon got on a big bus and headed to Cleveland, Tennessee... on the way there we stopped by a nice family restaurant (sorta like Bob Evans). Right when we came in, I heard a few people sitting there going "oh boy" since there were a lot of youths and probably thought we would be loud and disruptive and rude. However, the kids did well to prove them wrong and we got compliments on how well behaved they were...
We arrived (late) and ate dinner and proceeded towards worship... first days were usually chaotic since we didn't know where we would sit.... but we finally found seats.... in the nosebleed section...

I was mainly in charge of the Middle School boys and it was a huge change for me this year. The previous years I was only a chaperone, however with Brandon and Joyce being in different dorms since the high schoolers and middle schoolers were split, I was the main chaperone along with Anthony Woody. It was interesting how well I got along with Anthony since we were very different... He was usually spontaneous, a bit wild and odd at times while I was a little more serious but calm and relaxed as well... but we got along very well since we both respected each other and our differences in personality.

The main schedule went like this everyday for camp: Breakfast, Morning Worship, family group time, lunch, rec, free time, dinner, evening worship, church group time, back to the dorms, lights out

Day 2 I and two of the other chaperones finally met our family group... what family groups were, are groups that consisted of other churches and we were lucky this year to not get any of our youths... I thoroughly enjoyed my group... while they were easily distracted (like all middle schoolers are) they paid attention to the lessons and were attentive and asked questions. We bonded even more during rec time when I did a lot of different activities with them.

Day 3 consists of basically the same... we did a water day for rec and all my group did was stand around hoping to not get wet... safe to say... that i made sure that didnt happen...
An interesting thing that happened for the evening worship was a huge wind storm went through the city.... knocked down a few trees and a couple of electric lines as well.... oh, and the power went out during worship as well... but everything ended well...
During our church group time the kids prayed and one of them went under deep conviction and accepted Christ that night (WOO!)
Meanwhile back at the dorms, the boys were running up and down the hallways goofing off when suddenly someone from downstairs came up and started yelling at them to go to their rooms... while I wasn't pleased with how he did it... I figured I would be the better man (and Christian) and apologize and tell them to head to their rooms and to be quiet (and thus I would dub this man... Mr. Grumpy)

Day 4 was my last full day with the group... which meant that they got my "last day" message.... which I made up last year and eventually lead someone to accept Christ in the evening... which I did hope would be the case again... What I later found out was that someone rededicated her life to Christ which was awesome! On the way back from free time, I took a little break and stayed in my dorm... I then started to walk towards the bathroom at the end of the hall to discover that one of the students had left his door wide open with his key still in the lock... listening and checking in the bathroom, I figured out that they went ahead to dinner... Anthony also walked by since he'd just got out of the shower and noticed it too... we soon devised a plan to steal all their important stuff and put it in our rooms to teach them a little lesson...
When the kids came back, the two kids started panicking since their stuff was gone... I was doing a survey during the time and they ran into my room and told me the situation...(one stated: "I had a bunch of stuff including my cleats which was $75... everything they took is pretty much $150 and they better give it back!" in which i simply replied "not my problem... should've locked your door") I advised them to ask everyone on the floor including the people in the next hall... when they went over there, we finally put all their stuff back and went back to our rooms... next thing I heard was yelling and laughing and they realized that we got them and that they needed to lock their doors since not everyone there was a Christian.... afterwards, the kids teamed up with the other kids in the hall and started riding mattresses down the stairs... Mr Grumpy came out extremely upset and yelled at the kids and asked the chaperones for the name of the churches since we were "destroying school property".. The kids seemed shaken up but I ensured them that everything was fine and to just go to bed... I'm positive that any complaint Mr Grumpy had against our church was going to be ignored anyways...
(If you treat your fellow brothers in Christ like this, I hate to see how you treat the lost)

Day 5 we did a morning worship and left to go back home... A bit sad to see it end since this was the last event that I was going to do with CLBC for the summer.... but in the end, everything was for the glory of God and hopefully he was pleased with the work that was put in everywhere that I went...

PS. Brandon can do a good comedy routine with Sally and Shawn... his sock puppets...

Wednesday, July 25, 2012

A look back on my summer marathon: part 3 Indy Trip

To be honest, I wasn't really supposed to go on this trip, however, I think John or Brandon mentioned that one of the people groups that the team was going to be Asians and it was a huge population so I decided that it probably was a good idea to come along on the last minute.... Safe to say, probably wasn't the best idea since I didn't meet any Asians at all.... (but I told people about Jesus nonetheless)

Anyways, the trip up was a bit crowded... every seat was full which was a relief for me and we arrived and sort of rested for the night since we left in the afternoon and it was starting to get dark. The team divided into two, one to work at Emilo, a Spanish church plant, and one to work at a multi-housing site. Both would be involved in doing VBS. Our team was supposed to have "around 100 kids" however, when we got there, the only ones that came were another pastor's kids, which was extremely discouraging for our team. What sort of aggravated me even more was that the pastor that was in charge there didn't seem to be bothered nor surprised by it. oh and dont get me started on his son either...We then went door to door (which should've been done before we got there) and tried to get more kids out. Luckily we ran into some while walking around and invited them to come over, in which we did. As you can tell, I wasn't extremely impressed with the preparation this guy did and rarely spoke to him the entire week... Instead I sort of did my own thing for the week... which was going door to door, talking to people that were walking around the neighborhood and inviting them to VBS....
(NOTE: not complaining about this trip at all... just stating my experience... and to say the least, I did take a lot away from this trip that I know will be helpful in ministry later... mostly on what NOT to do... but helpful nonetheless... and this is the ending point where any negativity towards the dude stops)
After dinner, we went out to the park with some of Emilo's church and fellowship and played soccer with some of the people there. I myself felt a bit useless with the language barrier being there, but I finally found someone that spoke English and even though he claimed he was a Christian, I challenged him a little on his walk with God since he was out of church. 

Day 2 the number doubled (but when you had a low number... that's not hard) but it was a better day for everyone since we knew what to expect now. We did our usual thing, go door to door and invited more to come and that was pretty much our day in general. When we got back, we really just rested and be lazy (well most of the kids did... there was a variation of things for me to do that didn't involve a nap). In the evening, we went to downtown Indianapolis and saw some of the sites including Lucas Oil Stadium... home of the disgusting Indianapolis Colts... 

Day 3 the number doubled again and the VBS started to actually look like a VBS... There was also a block party planned that night so we advertised that to the kids as well. After going door to door and advertising a bit, I sat in on the VBS classes and was very pleased with how the CLBCers were connecting with the kids. After we were done, we went back and prepared for the evening.
The block part was huge to say the least... A lot of the neighborhood came over to see what was going on and it was a pretty big hit. The team pretty much mingled or tried to with everyone there... Oh, and the EvangeCubes are probably the easiest gateway to witness to someone... just sit down on the grass and start fiddling with it... before long, someone will ask what you're doing and voila... easy...
Afterwards, we started an Ultimate Frisbee game for the rest of the night and that was it for that day... safe to say we were tired...

Day 4 we went to the famous Indianapolis Zoo.... okay.. not so famous but it was alright... The Beijing Zoo definitely blew it out of the water. The dolphin show, although was cute, was slightly disappointing... However, I loved the dog show and some of the stunts that they did. The rest of the animals were interesting... but to say the least, I saw most of them 2 weeks before... however, hanging out with group made the zoo a lot more enjoyable... afterwards, we left for home on the same day and that was it for that trip

PS. Tug of War is a good activity with these kids... as is a foot race... and... Todd Morgan does really good SNL Harry Carey impersonations....

Tuesday, July 24, 2012

A look back on my summer marathon: part 2 Southern Baptist Convention

2 days after I got off the plane, I got back on another heading to New Orleans for the Southern Baptist Convention. Honestly, I didn't know what to expect, but I was excited since I always wanted to attend one of these meetings (you could even say it was on my bucket list). I was also signed up for a class that gave me 3 credit hours if I attended (and read books.. and wrote a huge report on it) Monday was the Pastor's Conference in where an array of very popular pastors ranging from Charles Stanley to David Platt and all of them delivered good sermons. The surprise preacher was Herb Reavis, whom Brandon was very excited to hear from. Safe to say, Reavis was just as good, if not better than the other popular preachers that preached that day. An important thing to note was that he preached right after David Platt. While the room was absolutely filled for Platt's sermon, it got cut in half when it was Reavis's turn to preach. Little did I know that this would be an ongoing issue that I would have a problem with for the week.

Tuesday through Thursday was when the whole business aspect of the SBC was discussed. The entire meeting was very interesting when they presented an issue and people on the floor had the opportunity to go up to the mics nearby to discuss the issue and why or why not they would vote for it to pass. A memorable moment was when a college student went up and instead of discussing the present case that was being discuss, he wanted to discuss something else (which was common among the people that went up). Right when he said he was a college student he got cut off before he could say another word (an embarrassing moment for him that he'll probably remember for the rest of his life.)

But the main entertainment during the meeting was a man called Richard Tribble. Not only was he a man that was a bit behind the times, but he was a extremely rude to the people on the panel, the president and pretty much everyone around him. I felt a bit insulted whenever he came up to the mic, and he wasn't even calling me out. Safe to say, he became the butt of the joke for the entire week... and he asked for it too.. I'm pretty sure he was up there to hear himself talk most of the time.... Something interesting to note was that he was a intern pastor for a church when I looked him up during the convention. A week later, when I wrote the paper, I looked him up again and found out that he's been replaced... hmmmm....

In the room beside where the convention was held was a huge room where books were sold by Lifeway and also tables and booths were assigned for Christian schools, seminaries and companies. While Brandon and I were around the Dallas Theological Seminary booth we heard a student ask "so.... where's Dallas Seminary at?" and the representative there had a stupefied look on his face and answered "...Dallas?"

The main event for the whole convention was Fred Luter being elected president of the Convention. The reason why this is so relevant was because he was the first African American to be nominated and ran unopposed. However, there were also plenty of other issues that were relevant that needed to be discussed as well such as the Sinner's Prayer and the name change of Southern Baptist. While I'm entitled to my opinion and it is my blog, I'll refrain from stating it because you can probably Google the subjects and be much more educated from it.

However, the mindset of the people at the convention really frustrated me. As stated above, Reavis only received half the audience that Platt did, and also, there was a IMB report where only probably a quarter of Platt's audience was there. I really can't figure out why people would like to hear the ideas of being giving up your life for God and being a missionary, but not put it in practice. At least attend the IMB meeting and listen to those that are the actual examples of what Platt preached...

Overall, the convention was pretty good and it was great hanging out with the pastors. Probably wouldn't attend another one since it cost a fortune to be there (and I don't have another class). But it was a nice experience in the end.

Closing note: Jet lag hit at times during the convention and I dozed off a few times. Wondered if anyone judged me for it.... are they in for a big surprise when God tells them where I was just at... :P

PS. No crying babies on the way there or back... streak breaks.. however, it still holds strong for "international plane trips"

Monday, July 23, 2012

A look back on my summer marathon: part 1 EA Trip

We set off for EA on the first day of June, stopping in NY, Canada, and finally in EA (Vern nearly crossed the Canadian border which might've been trouble for him... -.-) While in EA we would be working alongside of an English school in the area. When I say English school, keep in mind that this isn't a main school for the kids. It's sort of like an after school school that parents need to apply for and it's pretty prestigious. The main idea was that we'd go to the school to help, based on a previous team being there. However, the headmaster (we'll just call him Liu) had plans for us to do an English Festival. Liu basically watched over us the entire trip... from paying for our expenses there to driving us everywhere. The catch for Liu was that he was going to generate money from this, since the festivals would be in a central part of each town we would be at and it would compel the parents to sign their kids up for a pretty good fee. Our role was basically be ourselves, many of these people have never seen an American before, and we had a diverse team. Pseth (unlike PZone from pizza hut) was over 6ft tall and towered over everyone there. NaNa was an American kid, but was taller than most of them and was mostly the center of attention for teenage girls. Vern had white hair like Santa and Jan....et.. had blond hair... so everyone sorta stood out... which people would stare whenever we walked the street. (funny thing i liked to do was sorta step aside and stare at the group as well... whenever someone from the team asked what i was doing... i told them to be quiet since i was trying to blend it with everyone else). Anyways, we would generate a lot of attention wherever we went... especially the festival that Liu had for us to go to which was fine since this was our way to spread the good word. For the parents, it looks like the school is a very good school since they were willing to get Americans to come over and help. For us, we used this as a gateway to spread the good word to whomever was open to it.

As for the English Festivals it was basically a bunch of kids showing off what they learned in class, which included singing English songs and doing little games which we joined in on in front of the parents. Afterwards the team (excluding me) would be surrounded by people asking them to pose for them and try to talk to us in English.
One of the events that were a bit odd were kids doing a fashion show, which basically was kids doing a fashion show. (I made the comment that if this was the US... someone would be calling the cops). The catch was that a local clothing store probably struck a deal with Liu and they agreed to advertise their clothing at the event... which was probably already to going to be huge due to the advertisements around town and it being in a central area of the town. We eventually calculated it up and decided that Liu was making really good money off of these festivals... despite having to rent the stage, sound system and other small things, since we saw many people signing up for the schools right where we were. 




An important thing to note is that in the Chinese culture there in terms of this is that the host will pay for everything. While you may be able to state your case that "you shouldn't have" there isn't much to say since the host will do it anyways. One final note from me is: translating is HARD! It's one thing when I talk to someone since it's just a normal conversation (like when someone says dog. The brain won't go 狗->(english)dog->DOG, it goes 狗=DOG... when translating it goes 狗->DOG->(translate english) dog) ... so it takes a few steps before properly translating a word (now think how hard it is to do a sentence ;).... and it's even harder to do it the other way around). Even though it was challenging, it was a good learning experience for sure.


Flight took a total of around 30 hours... the flight from Canada to EA was around 16 if i remember correctly... My streak of crying babies continued as there was one a few rows behind me and one in front of me... What made it worse was there was something lodged in the headset jack so there was no way i could've watched a movie (well... i could watched it, but no sound would come out)... So 18 hours of either reading or listening to music. Sleeping for me wasn't an option due to it would already be night when we arrived. So as you may guess... pure... boredom.... and babies shrieking... sigh.. (but i did talk to the other members of the team)

Anyways, when we arrived we stopped in a major city close to our city of focus which was where our M also lived. We rested at a hotel (believe me we needed it after the flight) and went got up early to catch a bus to our city of focus. There, we met Liu who recognized me from last year and went on to our hotel from there (since the bus ride was around 4 hours). We ate a good dinner and decided to rest up for the coming week.

The second day we went to the Bamboo Sea with some of the teachers that we were going to work with and explored. The Bamboo Sea was a big tourist attraction for the area due to it's beautiful scenery and souvenirs. Most people bought souvenir from the place, since... most everything there was made of bamboo and everything was very unique. There was no doubt that we walked literally miles that day. Afterwards, we got dropped off at a park/plaza where we would be doing the festival that night. What's significant about the park is that you could see where two rivers would converge into the Yangtze River which is the longest river in Asia and 3rd longest in the world.

The third day we went to an old city a little bit from where we were staying where we would be having our second festival. The second festival came and went like the first one. However, since it was in a smaller part of the city, the crowd wasn't as big... However, it probably was a good turnout considering the amount of people in the city. In the evening we threw Pseth a big surprise birthday, since Pseth foolishly made me translate that he was turning a year older today to a child the previous day. The M, Na and I coordinated everything along with Liu on where it was at and when to buy the cake. To be honest, watching Pseth walk into that room was extremely entertaining.... sorta like watching a mouse walk into a trap.

The fourth day we went to another major English school that wasn't associated with Liu's schools. I'm betting money was probably exchanged under the table for us to be there, but nonetheless, we did most of our usual thing there and hung out with the kids and parents there. Since this was a smaller setting, we gave most of our giveaways there. One of the most interesting things about it was that they had a huge electronic scrolling billboard outside that faced the highway so anyone traveling could see it and our names were on it.  Later, we traveled a little more what seemed like the outskirts of the city. There was a "ski lift" up to where we would see a lot of Buddhist temples and also the highest point of the city where we could see everything. We PR over the city while Liu watched from afar. Later he said he was very touched to hear us do that. We later went to another park setting (keep in mind that these cities are big and that they have different sections to them) and did a festival there. We also noticed that they did sorta of a Chinese Zumba there and there were A LOT of them. We saw some doing it on the second day... but not as many people doing it here. Jan also joined it which was a bit entertaining. She later told me that it was good exercise (and she was tired from it)

The fifth day we rested a bit and went out to see a fellowship, there we kind of looked around and prayed over the place. It was very interesting to be inside a fellowship in EA where we were... We then went back to the hotel to rest for a bit and also to write cards to each teacher that was with us for the week and went onto our final site which was a walk away from where we stayed. With this being the biggest crowd, we pretty much pulled out all the stops in making it successful. Afterwards, we hung around with the people in the area. We also said our goodbyes to the teachers and gave them a card which had some very inspiring words inside. Afterwards, we ate dinner and went back to the hotel since we were leaving the next day.

The trip back was a bit of a pain... traffic was at a standstill for 4 hours and we needed to be back to see some work study students from last year. We later met up with them and ate and hung out with them. The following day we left on the plane to go to the capital city to do some touring... but to be honest... it would probably be better if you saw the pictures on Facebook instead of letting me describe it...

In the end, the trip was a great trip. We were very blessed not having rain every night considering almost every morning it rained... We are also PRing for Liu as he gradually understand our father's saving grace. He showed signs that he was interested, such as asking how i became an xtian and believing in one father. We also PR for the teachers as well, as they also wonder about if there is anything beyond this life.

I think that's it for this segment... part II coming tomorrow!

PS. Baby sat behind me and was viciously crying.... streak continues...

Sunday, April 29, 2012

Death seems to stops time (The longest week ever)

When I entered the youth house today for sunday school, it hit me... just last week I taught the high schoolers. The reason I say this is because it seemed like a month ago since then.

It started just last Sunday, possibly one of the best days in a while. Guest taught the high schoolers, they were extremely engaging and open. One pulled me aside later and asked a few questions (I'm positive he's saved, just wanted to know some complex theology about predestination). Played basketball in the tournament and didn't do too bad. I was having an upbeat day. Suddenly, I received a text from my sister asking if I knew that 大伯父 (that's translated as big uncle, as in the oldest) died. Shock. All of a sudden my day did a 180 on me, and I was a bit upset with my parents not telling me. 

A little background on my uncle. He's about 20 some years older than my dad and the oldest in the family. My family consists of 3 uncles, 3 aunts, (not counting my dad) and many cousins, and their spouses. He lived in Charleston WV and was my the only relative I had in WV. He was a microbiologist at CAMC hospital and two years ago he underwent double (or triple i can't remember) heart bypass surgery which basically changed his life, made him extremely weak and basically warped his mind. He was placed in hospice and later to the hospital when his kidneys were failing. He was later told that his organs were shutting down and only had a day to live. His last wish was to go to Taiwan to see everyone one last time. Due to some very careless communication, my aunts and cousin arrived too late to see him before he died.

Due to this, I had to quickly but carefully plan my week. The funeral were set at Thursday and Friday and I had relatives coming in on different days. I already had to work this week and had to call off due to an emergency. I also had to skip a class (which I rarely do). By Wednesday afternoon, I had everything packed and left. The drive up went by pretty fast due to one question that I couldn't get out of my head: Was 大伯父 saved? He didn't show a lot of signs those last two years but the surgery did a number on him physically and mentally. 

When I got home, I was greeted by my dog of course, but also by my two aunts who came from Taiwan. Thursday came and my cousin from my 3rd uncle came in from LA. We went straight to the funeral home to get ready for the viewing. While the slideshow was going on, there were several pictures that interested me. The black and white family photo of course was entertaining to see my dad and the rest of my aunts and uncles when they were young. But the one that I took notice was my uncle being baptized and another when he was holding a Bible in his hand right after. Of course, baptism is not a ticket into heaven. But it encouraged me. The viewing went on, we all wept over his body and did some Chinese rituals and sang Amazing Grace. In the end, we all said our last goodbye and took one last look at his body.

Friday came, along with the memorial service. My uncle's daughter and son both spoke of their father. But one thing that they spoke about that I never realized until now was that my uncle had a very forgiving heart. If someone wronged him, he would just let it go. The pastor also spoke about his determination to be at church while he was weakened. Others stood up and told of his kindness and sacrifice towards others. Very encouraging. But the one that got me was my dad's speech. Even though he doesn't speak English well and it was hard to understand him at times, he basically told of a hymn that he heard when 大伯父 was in his final hours. Softy and Tenderly Jesus is Calling. "Come home, Come home, ye who are weary come home; Earnestly, tenderly, Jesus is calling, Calling O sinner come home." Dad ended with his last words to his brother in Taiwanese. Even though nobody but a few understood it, we all kind of got a sense what he was saying.

I'm not God and I can't judge on where he is right now. But I'm pretty sure he's in a place with no more suffering and pain. A lot of my friends today at church asked me how my family was or if I was okay. I am truly thankful for friends that cares. And I gave them the same answer. "We'll all miss him, but he's in much better place now and I'm happy for him. But he will be missed."

Revelation 21:1-4 Then I saw a new heaven and a new earth, for the first heaven and the first earth had passed away, and the sea was no more. And I saw the holy city, new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride adorned for her husband. And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, “Behold, the dwelling place of God is with man. He will dwell with them, and they will be his people, and God himself will be with them as their God. He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away.”



Sunday, April 15, 2012

More Pledges! KLOVE!

I'm probably going to get a lot of flack on this.. but here goes.
NOTE.. if you dont want to read all of it... read the second half... the first half is an overview of klove and my snide remarks along with it..

KLOVE... our favorite, family friendly, Christian music radio station... established in 1982 in California, it soon launched into 440 stations across the U.S. (many thanks to wikipedia for the source)

However, in 2007, Mike Novak (aka, Mr. Krabs from Spongebob) took over as CEO of KLOVE... and from then on, it seems that every other season there seems to an abomination to mankind that is known as the pledge drive. (please don't quote me on this... KLOVE may have had pledge drives before 2007, but I vaguely remember first hearing about pledge drives around 07 or 08 while i was in college...)

the reason KLOVE has a pledge drive is because it is a listener supported radio station.. meaning that money that you donate help pays the bills and it also keeps advertisements off the air as icing on the cake...
While asking for money to help support a ministry of any sort is okay in my books.. Novak has turned this into a complete joke... (Novak might not be the one with the ideas.. but he is the responsible for going through with them)... Instead of doing this in a humble, quaint way... it's turned into a full blown circus... the DJs are acting (terribly) excited about getting to said goal with the sound effects of telephones going off in the background... They all sound stressed, chaotic, etc. and when they finally get a pledge from a sucker supporter, they act like Jesus just came back and Hallelujah He has risen indeed and all that sort..

Then at the end of the week, when the pledge drive is over and they (most likely) missed their goal (i think they actually hit it once or twice in the past).. Scrooge McDuck aka Mike Novak comes on every so often as the "commercial" and announces that they didn't meet the goal and what their plans are going forward... all this is in a disappointed tone with a hint of condescending... in other words... it sounds like he's saying to all the listeners "Hey all of you... you all screwed up" .. and to the chumps people that donated "why didn't you give more? you all are a bunch of screw ups as well"

But these examples aren't even what makes my skin crawl.. Here are 3 points on why the pledge drive is an utter joke

1) Literally begging for money - As I said before, asking for money for a ministry isn't bad... however, how they do it is in bad form... There's a difference between asking and begging; begging is asking over and over again with a sense of desperation while asking is once with a sense of wonder... it is asking if i hear it once in a while... it's begging when i get in my car and they're asking, i get out, get back in after a class and they're asking, get out and go to work, get in and they're asking, get back from bible study when it's nearly midnight and they're asking..

I'm literally writing this at 1:52 am and turned klove on and within 5 seconds i hear the word "pledge drive" ... i mean.. seriously.. are they hoping that somewhere, there's a midnight snacker that's going to his fridge in his underpants and go "huh.. im going to pledge to klove right now"

and here's the biggest kicker .. what happens if a lost person suddenly turns on klove (since that's what they're "biggest goal" seems to be).. they hear christians asking for money.. heyyy... that's a stereotype there... christians are after your money... /lost witness
seriously... chill out with saying pledge drive a gazillion times a day klove...

2) Twisting of Scripture ...this is seriously not a-okay with me... especially if they're doing it for their personal gain of trying to encourage givers...  I don't know if they do it now since I don't listen to them while they're doing their pledge drive.. not cool at all..

3) Song usage ..."After this next song, whoever pledges will win a CD pack" ... after this next song? You mean the song that is a prayer/story of a broken person/a cry out to Jesus... that song? KLOVE.. you're basically making a song that Steve Curtis Chapman wrote after his daughter died into a stopwatch to try to encourage someone to quickly donate money... anyone else see a problem with this??

well how would you propose to fix it then Shane? Well... I'm no expert in these type of things at all.. but I would suggest that you get rid of this whole "listener supported" junk and let some advertisements in... there are plenty of sponsors out there that would give money for some sort of airtime.. churches, Christian speakers... go for it... I don't know about you but when I hear "listener supportive" I don't go oooohhhh ahhhhhh..... I go "k" ... really it's not impressive to me at all and I don't get the hype of it all..

that's all folks